Gay or Straight?

I've given up on trying to determine who's gay or straight in Munich - especially at our gym Leo's. Just when I think someone is family, I hear (or they tell me) that they have a girlfriend - and it's not like a "hey girlfriend!"

I think it comes down to the fact that many men, either gay or straight, give you an eye. Sure, some are sisters. But others, many in fact, I believe just want to know if you're looking - giving them a sense of approval. The problem is many of the ones you'd be eyeing don't need any additional confidence. They have too much.

Then again, what's the harm in appreciating what's on display? If it makes them even more cocky, what do I care? Do I plan on having them over for dinner and a movie? No.